Navigating The Transition From High School to College
One of the most memorable days of our adolescence is the moment we get to walk across that stage and receive our diploma. You get to say your last goodbyes to your favorite teachers and staff. You are finally stepping into the world of “adulting”. Whether you decide to further your education or jump straight into the workforce, the transition can be a bit frightening.
As a recent graduate, I am here to provide any future college students with some advice to help them with the scary, yet exciting life change.
It’s completely normal to not know what you want to do
I think it’s insane to expect a bunch of 17-18-year-olds to know exactly what they want to do with their lives after high school. Most of the time, high school doesn’t even provide students with alternative paths to success. College may not be the route for everyone and that's okay. Remember that you’re still young and that you have time to make all of these decisions. You have time to change your mind and reconsider things. Take this time to experience and learn about what you’re passionate about.
One thing I regret is not taking a semester off before jumping straight into college. It’s so easy to get burnt out with school if you don’t give yourself a break. The American Gap Association (AGA) conducted a survey that showed over 80% of the participants that took a gap year after high school were able to find time for personal reflection and development, and helped increase confidence and maturity. Do not be afraid to take that time to yourself.
Invest in a planner
College students have lots of things going on. Planners are great for helping you stay organized and prioritize dates. Fill your planner with assignment due dates, extra-curricular, and any other important tasks for each week. If you repeat this regimen every week, I guarantee you will see a change in your productivity, stress, and time management. Have fun with it. Planners come in several different styles, colors, and sizes. It’s so easy to find one that works for you! Investing in a planner now will help you to remain organized even after college.
Join clubs and communities on campus
This one is specifically for incoming freshmen, but this can also be for anyone that may be struggling to make friends. The beauty of college is all of the resources they offer for all students. When I first started college, I joined clubs and was able to find new friends that shared the same interest as me. Starting college alone can be very intimidating, especially for introverts, like me. One of the biggest changes you’ll witness during this transition is the number of relationships that will fade away. High school was the glue for many friendships. When you graduate high school, everyone goes down different paths and that’s normal. Don’t be afraid to get out there. You never know who you’ll meet and how they’ll impact your life.